6 You’re becoming interested in their favorite things.
You used to despise Eminem, but now “Without Me” is the most-played song on your Spotify. So why the sudden change?
You can try to convince yourself all you want that you’ve just discovered a newfound love for Hip-hop, but it’s no coincidence that Eminem is also that person’s favorite artist. And be careful if you notice your spouse picking up new hobbies or listening to new genres: This could be one of the 30 Subtle Signs Your Wife Is Cheating.
7 You actually care what they think about you.
You know it’s impossible to please everyone. But despite your best efforts, you take it all too personally when that special someone gets mad at you or criticizes something you do, because, for some reason, you actually value their opinion.
8 You constantly check your phone for new messages.
Most people these days are glued to their phones, but everyone else’s addictions pale in comparison to yours. Every ping you hear makes your body go into fight-or-flight mode, and you can’t go more than five seconds without checking your phone (because there’s always that possibility that they called or texted, and you don’t want to keep them waiting). And if you’re worried that you spend too much time on your device, try these 20 Genius Ways to Kill Time without a Smartphone.
9 You admit when you’re wrong during arguments.
Even the most reasonable person doesn’t want to admit their mistakes during a heated argument. But during a debate with that special someone, you can’t help but throw your ego and stubbornness aside in favor of compromise and resolution. Unfortunately, the same can’t be said about fights with your partner.
10 You feel guilty hanging out with them.
You shouldn’t feel guilty just hanging out with a friend. Unless, of course, you have feelings for said friend. Emotional cheating—which is to say, falling in love with someone else—can sometimes feel even worse than physical cheating, and so every time you send a text to that person you’re falling for, it’s likely accompanied by an anxiety-producing sensation of secrecy and culpability. And to find out more ways you might be cheating without realizing it, read up on the 20 Social Media Habits That Are Technically Cheating.
