38 “It’s A Good Sign If You Don’t Argue”
Not so much. “The truth is that if couples don’t have disagreements, they’re likely not expressing important ideas or needs,” Oates explains. “When you’re in a relationship, it’s important to have discussions about your relationship needs and concerns. No two people have the same needs and goals, so it’s normal for disagreements to occur. When couples remain silent or agreeable with important needs and issues, they can easily begin to resent the relationship, because their needs and viewpoints aren’t considered.”
